A Poem for the Grieving by Janine Byrne and a tribute to my Brother
This poem was written by a great friend Janine Byrne who when hearing of the loss of my brother, said the words just came spilling out of her. My family cannot thank her enough for this heartfelt and thoughtful present which I read at his funeral. It was as if she knew exactly what we needed, exactly what he would have wanted to say and I will be forever grateful to her.
She is a poetic genius and her words are extremely powerful. The best way I can thank her is to share this poem so that thousands and maybe millions of people will stumble across this when they need it most. I am confident this will resonate with the world, therefore, even though it has taken days to grasp the energy to post this, I feel it’s quite urgent as people are losing their loved ones every day. Thank you Janine xxx
A Poem for the Grieving
If the end is not the end
But the end is the start,
Will you look for the rainbow
As I prepare to depart.
Will you hold me in your memories
And erase all I’ve done wrong,
Will you continue to remember me
When you hear my favourite song.
Will you speak of the good times
And not of the bad,
Will you forgive me for my wrong doing
And the times I made you sad.
Will you love me forever and
Keep my photo in your purse,
Will you tell my kids I love them
At the end of this first verse.
Will you commend my Mam and Dad
For the courage, they still show,
Will you hug them and hold them tightly
and never let them go.
Will you hang my picture on the wall
For everyone to see,
I was no angel but I loved you
Please never forget me.
If the end is the beginning
And I get a second chance,
I’ll be a better person
In this change of circumstance.
I might be gone from sight
But I’ll be forever by your side,
Helping you to carry on
I’ll always be your guide.
I was proud to call you family
Until the very end,
Thank you for the memories
And always being my friend.
In loving memory of my brother Karl who passed away on the 2nd February 2015, aged 34 years.
I promise I will love you forever and I will never forget you nor let anyone else forget you.
You received a private and beautiful send off. Your kids showed immense bravery and courage, you would be beaming with pride.
Rest in peace Karl, we love you.